People who love themselves don’t compare themselves to others, if there is any comparing to be done it is only ever with yourself when reminding yourself of how much you have overcome.
Look at your life 12 months ago, how did you deal with things then, what things have improved? There will always always be something, no matter how small and speaking of size the smaller the better. A mountain is not climbed in one big leap, it is taken at a pace step by step, moment by moment. If you want to climb this mountain of life take it moment by moment, the slower you are the more time you have to appreciate the beauty around you. How can you notice the delicate flowers when you are running?
Our life is not measured by our breaths but by the moments that take our breath away.
Stop, slow down really really pay attention to yourself and acknowledge the beauty that you are. Whatever it is that you are doing there will always be someone better or worse than you.
Love you, appreciate you and watch other people fall in love with who you really are.